Searching For Love

I’ve used a couple sites for online dating… I find it gets you a lot of first dates and few if any lasting relationships.

be happy that at least you have had a relationship.

none, honestly. Never tried it, never will. It’s obviously improved over the years, but it’s still the same… the initial first meeting has certain expectations. You and the other person are usually disappointed because we either over-analyze what we see on the internet, or we over-emphasize what we want to be seen from our own profiles. Both of which are boosts for our natural tendency to imagine and hope for a certain outcome that might be unrealistic. Best to know someone personally and be friends and let the interest grow from there.